Love illusion tells you something new

Love illusion is everywhere!

~Love Illusion is the smoke buried in heart~

"Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself."- Andre Bret

Love illusion is everywhere. Have you ever imagined that all things or people do not appear as they are in our naked eyes? The limitations of our sense and sensitivity in addition to our constant needs to grow mentally and spiritually, render our perception of people and things flawed or erroneous. The growth of a soul needs assistance of other people, especially those whom we meet and fall deeply in love with. Only within an intimate relationship, fundamental life lessons can be taken on the stage and taught in unforgettable ways. We go through love not merely for purpose of love itself, but for the new knowledge about self that we would never discover if we had not been in a particular love with somebody. No matter it is good or bad, it is a gift. Different lover stimulates different chemistry and incites different hidden truths of ourselves to surface that we could never discover otherwise. By the dynamic interactions with a specific loved one, we feel our ecstasy and pain, from which we realize where our weakness and strength lie.

Listen to the Sound of Emotion 

Believe the cosmic rule of attraction that no one is sent by God to you without a reason. Why on earth it is he or she who met me and make my life upside down? Why the one in trillion chance rested on him or he to give me such a life experience? I believe it is a universal match of the two energies that coincide at certain point. Together, they need to accomplish a mission, to achieve individual balances of  certain energies for respective personal growth. All the emotions, feelings, tears, laughters, sentiments, worries, etc., are part of by-products of the serious life lesson.

Do not pay too much attention to them, as they will pass. When your tears are dried up for someone, when your worries become numb in sleepless nights, when all the feelings have ended up with ridiculing you by cheating yourself, you will come to realize that you were not getting it. Something has to be figured out and memories serve you no more a channel to lament, but a logic and sensible detection in self examination.

Time is the best way to reveal the truth. Everything in this world remains truthful in time. What is not truthful was our own eyes. But time will not tolerate our own untruthfulness for too long. Like a test, there is a time limitation for every encounter. Through conflicts and uncomfortable struggles, we become mirrors for each other and reached certain height of growth.  Therefore, say in your heart to the one who loved you, you loved, and left you or deserted by you, a gracious sentence: thank you, darling, for teaching me the lesson and pass me by.

Wish him or her "Take care. Life goes on."

No matter how experienced we are in love, unique scenes can always be created by different interactions between two lovers. Each couple has different issues in relationship. Our mission in love is to find the truth of self as soon as possible. The universal calling for completing self is urgent during the evolution of a relationship. If that relationship does not serve to help us become a more beautiful soul, the love we cherished so much will lose the magic all of sudden.