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Many people are still convinced that soulmates are the perfect matches for love in this life. But the reality is that there is no perfect partner in this world. The imperfection is the stigma or birthmark of the earthly life. But there IS perfectness in soulmate relationships in spiritual sense, not in mundane sense. They will be fully illustrated in North Node Soulmate and Marriage Books based on our soul mission, the purpose of this life.
Soulmate is the one who triggers our key energies to stimulate spritual growth, whether it is unilateral or bilateral. But there is an increasing tendency to equate soulmate with the term of "ideal or healthy" relationship. Soulmate does not have to be healthy or harmonious to get spiritual growth you need in this life. Like the thunder and rains, they are all parts of the Nature as flowers and the Sun, which nourish our souls and other living beings without undue personal biases.
The more intricated thing here is that as we move along with our physical life, everything is in constant change. Our terms of soulmate changes as well. And it should not be a static or fixed term to the same person at different stage of one's life.
So, what is the meaning of soulmate exactly? It has to be tailored specifically to your soul purpose, with the means of north node analysis. Explore the meaning of your soulmate in the North Node Series here.
It is important to know who you truly are in this incarnation, so that you will not be missing the right partner in a narrow escape. But truth is perplexing without the wisdom of Buddism, the great intelligence of this Universe.
There are many traditional or modern classifications of soulmates, such as Romantic Soulmates, Soul Partners, Companion Soulmates, Karmic Soulmates, etc. But these classifications only state the function of soulmates in different areas of life. It does not show the real difference in terms of soulmates.
In fact, all soulmates are karmic because this world is karmic. There is no pure concidence for every encounter. The chance to meet someone or get involved in a relationship is extremely small that it needs strong karmic connection in our fate to make it happen. Both the world and life are well-organized by invisible karmic force. Depending on the direction of soul to clear karmic debts, I have categorized soulmates into the following 8 types:
Contributory Soulmate
Complementary Soulmate
Confrontational Soulmate
Ironic Soulmate
Testifying Soulmate
Belittling Soulmate
Enlightening Soulmate
Kindred Soulmate
Are there any gut feelings that could tell us we have just found the soulmate in this life?
Terrific feelings for finding a right partner are poor illusions of human beings. That is why happiness is always fleeting star and life is unstable all the time. It is a temporary phenomena like we drink coca-cola, the exciting and pleasant sensation will dissipate at its own accord.
When someone in your life changes the way of your life, or turn your life upside down, or drive you into the next phase of life, you have met the real soulmate, who exists to facilitate your great spiritual growth in this life.
FAQ
How to find my my soulmate?
Soulmate is not to be found. They are dispatched to you when your time is right to meet that soul. They came to you to help you or need your help to grow, or evolve together. If you need specific guidance, the books here can help you locate more clues of your soulmates in this life.
How to deal with the conflicts with your soulmate?
To be honest to yourself, be willing to take pains to clear up your karmic debts left by your south node sign, to work hard toward north node energy, to settle within self when dealing with soulmate conflicts.