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It is unsurprising that family members especially parent or child can be the biggest challenging souls to deal with in our entire life because of their intimacy with us and the frequent trifles that often touches our bottom lines. There is a lack of clues to unriddle the conundrum. Parent-Child Relationship is one of the most emotional and intense social ties which lasts for most of one’s life, even if not, its profound impact can set the major tune for our spiritual evolvement.
A profound life contract between parent and child had been made when the child gave the first cry upon its birth. All the troubles or problems of a grown-up can be traced to the fundamental roots through parent-child relationship. Whether it is a parent or a child, a genetic stamp and acquired family behavior patterns are formed since childhood.
In domestic life, absent certain social distance, the souls of parent and child are almost in a naked running, exposing themselves to the most vulnerable spiritual defects of each other. Problems get more complicated when both parent and child do not know what their own problems are, but keep blaming each other. So, sharp family conflicts create a living battlefield to wake both parent and child up to their north node energy, the challenge parent and child must take to grow up together and live a harmonious family life in this incarnation. Every time when we stop and fall back upon old life energies, the south node energies, our life, including parent-child relationship will be stuck. Why? Because we are coming to the life once again with a new mission by rising above our old self, not to repeat the past life weakness within us.
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From north node perspective, all family issues and problems are the same. It is a misunderstanding, misconception, and the labyrinth that needs to work out from south node conundrum, the messing up wrong energies! Monitoring parent and child relationship correctly with the respective north node energy will take the souls to the next level in self-evolution for this life.
All the following phenomena are merely symptoms of spiritual sickness of child or parent:
1. A pattern of disrespect through disregard of each other’s feelings
2. Lack of trust and dishonest assumptions
3. Anger and emotional outburst
4. Overreliance on each other
5. Various abuses including verbal abuse, cold violence, etc.
There are also many external stimuluses triggering those family conflicts between parents and child, such as the following elements: marital conflicts, maternal depression, poverty, residential instability, stepfamilies, peer pressures, illness etc.
Like a computer bug or physical illness, the symptoms and triggers can be the same for various individual computers or individuals, but the root cause can be unique in respective case. It will help parent and child better understand each other, to see in an objective and compassionate view, to reduce false and subjective assumptions with personal biases to the minimum.