Love illusion, the driving force in love

"Love is the child of illusion and the parent of disillusion.- Miguel de Unamuno

Love illusion is the fated drama in human life.

Being the children of illusion and parent of disillusion, love perfectly explains to us how we fall in it and fall out it as human being. Love is an illusion because we tend to look at the world with our own eyes of mind. We often confuse what we get with what we wanted when come to love. Meeting our expectation on love is our irresistible urge in life. To certain extent, when we fall in love, we like to dance around with an ideal lover in our fantasy. If we like someone, we tend to hear what we want to hear, and see what we want to see.

Moreover, we even imagine a lot about the object of love and we are not reluctant to put on the pallet of love a lot of colors we favor and add something that we could not live without. Yes, that is it!

By and by, we fall in love with the one who is only alive in our illusion, so deeply, so helpless, until one day, the imagined lover simply evaporates and disappears with the advent of the real person who could no longer tolerate for not being treated for whom he/she really is as an individual. Disillusion, when it hits us, strikes against the broken face like a thunder, with a bleeding heart and a pair of desperate and wide-open eyes. It feels like the end of the world, the end of life, exhausted and extremely sad. Time stops running, and the earth ceases to turn as well. We could no longer hear the world, feel the world, and move on with the whole world, as if being deserted at certain point of time and space!