Feeling Lonely -We're always alone

We are feeling lonely since we get consciousness of the world..

"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone" - Orson Welles

Feeling lonely

We are surrounded by relatives, friends, and people we interact with in all walks of life. This phenomenon creates an illusion that we are a part of the whole and we are unable to enjoy life by ourselves. However, this misconception could seriously impair our vision and disable us the autonomy in many life areas. In terms of work, few have courage to start business and cut a new road that no people have ever taken. In terms of love, we tend to live in a fear worrying whether we are able to locate a life partner at certain age, and going through such an age crisis would make us to compromise our own value of life which in turn deprives of our very much needed courage to find true love, no matter how hard and how lonely it is. We lose self if we do not suffer and endure the loneliness of being self.

Yes, we are all lonely deep inside, rich or poor, old or young. This is fairness in the world. If you do not feel lonely, then it is just an illusion, not reality. Just like a drunk man, he sees and feels under the influence of alcohol while the reality remains intact as it is. The best way is to face it and plan it with a self-centered life. It is not selfish to take responsibility of your own life and have sufficient courage to live on your own and remain sane to the fact of loneliness of life. Ironically, when we recognize and dare to face the loneliness, nothing can hinder us from reaching our heart desires.

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