The Origin of Broken Heart Syndrome

What is the feature of mental illness? We are unaware of the origin of a broken heart. We never expected that there is an evil lurking deep within our hidden consciousness. -Wei Chen

LOVE BIBLE: LIFE CONTRACT Vol. 2

The Origin of a broken heart is an evil lurking in hidden consciousness

When we suffer from mental illness in the form of a broken heart, we instinctively tend to blame others and fall into a victim's mental state. We would never imagine that it might well be ourselves who created such a miserable situation from our broken heart.

Self-defeating behavior is the main causation or origin of a broken heart

Self-defeating behavior is the main causation or origin of a broken heart because as the word "self-defeating" means, it targets to break our own heart. It works just like an automatic killer at the very moment we try to figure out the meanings of others. Vivid and horrible dark shadows in our own inner heart haunt us incessantly during our communications with others. We process the words and facts by our own logic, though biased and inaccurate, to draw a wrong conclusion that is so hurtful to our hearts.

We tend to envision darkness through negative thoughts or an unhealthy dose of prejudices. Low self-esteem often drives us to the edge of the fatal failure of a relationship. The habit of self-defeating logic is common in attacking our hearts from many areas in our lives, including career, love, and friendship.

How could we spot the self-defeating behavior effectively?

But how can we spot self-defeating behavior despite its hardship to be discovered in its latent form? How many times, when we look back, we have an Aha moment with a tearful face, only to realize that our self-defeating behaviors have ruined many could-be beautiful relationships?

We feel so helpless to mend our broken hearts. It is so essential to truly understand the existence of the self-defeating devil. We must take precautions against it.

First, We need to realize:

One of the hardest things in the world is to tame ourselves because the biggest enemy in this world is self. Self-defeating mentality destroys us completely. It is the prelude of a broken heart.

Second, it helps if we feel two egos residing within our hearts

One is acting as our own nurturing mother, and the other is an innocent inner child. The nurturing mother self listens to our heart and has the capability to love and endure our pains. The child self can accept all types of emotions for fun without feeling depressed that causes self-defeating behavior. Thus we get an emotional balance by meditating on the self this way.

Third, avoid a self-defeating mentality with our strong confidence

If we are confident enough, we will get additional energy, endurance, and patience to see our love through without defeating ourselves first during any setback. Lack of self-confidence gnawing our self-respect and perpetuating the darkness in human relationships, even the most beautiful love turns cold. Even if your broken heart is not caused by your own self-defeating mentality, self-confidence gives you more strength and love to comfort and heal your broken heart.

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